So…back in March I got a Fitbit. For years I said I would never get a fitness tracker (the idea seemed absurd—like it could become too addictive), but since I know for a fact that I’m more sedentary at work than I used to be, I (fit)bit the bullet.
So far, I’m loving my brand spanking new Alta HR* and to my surprise, it’s not as addicting as I thought.
I don’t even use it for meals or water tracking (although I should for the water—I’ve been slacking), and while I do pay close attention to my steps (or lack thereof, lately), the most eye-opening information has actually been my sleep cycles.
I sleep like crap!
I’ve always been a “light” sleeper, but I’ve found lately that I am barely cycling into “deep” sleep. No wonder I’m so damn tired all the time.
Now that Bazooka is sleeping like a dream in his big boy bed, I have no reason to wake up throughout the night.
Since I know that my sleep struggles affect my anxiety and general wellbeing, I’m making an effort to improve my slumber.
5 Ways I Plan to Ease My Sleep Struggles
No electronics for at least an hour (preferably 2 hours) before bedtime
This is difficult for me because, as full-time working mom, I do any blog-related “work” on weekends or in the evenings. But even when I’m not blogging, I spend too much time on my phone scrolling mindlessly—and I know that it negatively influences my rest (not to mention my relationships and mindfulness). To rectify this, I’m going to start keeping my phone in the bedroom while we unwind in our den in the evenings.
Nightly stretching
Sitting at a desk all day takes a big toll on my body! I have never been flexible, but in the last several years, my flexibility has decreased even more. Stretching is good for my body, but it releases emotional tension, as well. Whether it’s 30 minutes of true yoga or just 10 minutes of basic stretches with Bazooka (he loves to imitate—and climb all over—mommy!), I want to make this a habit.
Little (to no) alcohol
I was doing so well during Lent when I gave up alcohol during the week—but then a week or two before Easter, I reintroduced it and have made it nightly or semi-nightly habit. Well, I used to think that a glass or two of wine relaxed me, but lately I’ve found I sleep worse when I drink it, so what’s the point? I’m planning to turn to my growing hot tea collection when I’m craving a beverage other than water.
Essential oils
Even though I had a foray into essential oils for health, I’m not a big believer in their medicinal abilities. But…they smell damn good, and I do think that essential oils as aromatherapy can help you decompress and relax. I enjoy this Good Night* blend from Eden’s Garden, and lavender scents always help calm any anxiety or tension. I plan to diffuse* either of these before bed and spray down my pillow, too.
Reading
Lately I’ve been reading a lot, and I’ve found it helps me escape my every-day world. Since I get antsy and bored watching TV (for Mark, it’s his way to relax after listening to and talking to clients all day—no judgment!), I need something besides my phone to occupy my wandering brain. So, why not get lost in a good book? This way I can help myself sleep better and knock off some of the titles on my “to read” list.
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So tell me…
- How do you unwind before bed?
- Have you found that certain foods/activities (caffeine, alcohol, etc.) cause sleep struggles?
- Are you typically a light or heavy sleeper?
Heather @ Polyglot Jot says
Do you think its a certain amount of time that wine is consumed before bed? Like, if you drank it earlier do you think you’d still sleep bad? I’m asking because I think it definitely hinders my sleep too when I drink it at night (when im not pregnant of course)!
Catherine says
It might be – I usually have a glass at dinner but nurse my second one until right before bed. Maybe cutting off earlier would help.
Heather @Lunging Through Life says
I had a Fitbit years ago and actually just got the Charge 2 yesterday for my birthday. I wasn’t surprised at how terribly I slept last night, ha! Darn pregnancy! But I do love these ideas on getting better sleep! Picking up a book before bed always helps me.
Catherine says
Haha, pregnancy sleep is the WORST! Especially when you already have a toddler, I imagine. Hope your sleep gets better 🙂
Sarah @ Sweet Miles says
The no electronics thing is HUGE for me!! I’m so guilty of practically falling asleep on my laptop or in front of the TV – heck, most nights my husband falls asleep on one end of the couch and me on the other haha!
Catherine says
Haha, some nights my husband and I fall asleep in our recliners! Yeah, we’re basically elderly ?
Lisa @ Lisa 3D says
I’ve been having so many sleep struggles lately too, and these sound like really good tips to help. Also I agree with you in that I find I sleep worse after drinking some wine.
Catherine says
Hope you start getting some better sleep!
Donna Miele says
Hi Cassie, well as you and everyone under the sun knows that I’m not into technology! I feel like … Lucy Ricardo always doing something wrong!! So… I like to read quietly which does help me to relax.
My best friend, Marie, takes a relaxing bubble bath every night. She saves showers for the morning. She has done this so called ritual for over twenty-five years! It has worked very well for sure. Try it… you might love it! Don’t forget some soothing lotion after your bath. Even Bazooka likes his lavender lotion! Hmmm… I wonder who taught him about lotion.? But remember… no lotion in the mouth…. as he had to learn. Ha! ???⚜️?
Catherine says
Reading quietly is my favorite too 🙂